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In Hospital, We Are United..

I just got back from HTAR Klang. Me, baba, mama, ain and along went to see Pak Ngah Jalil in ICU today this evening. He was admitted yesterday. After finish reciting Yasin, I walk around to see the condition of other patients. I was touched to see many of young doctors (majority are from University Malaya) struggle so hard in keeping their fingers to the patient needed.

It turn out to be a Chinese doctor, interviewing one Malay patient, asking about its background, personal information. He encouraged this old man to get well soon, and perceivably care about this old man’s life. On different occasion, I saw a group of Malay doctors with nurse, joking about something.

I would like to say something, but doesn’t mean I didn’t understand doctor’s job. Of course we know that some of them are tired and bored with everyday routine being a doctor or nurse. They somehow need this joke or maybe to have some chat with friends. But sometimes they must fit the situation on where are they, when or maybe with whom they are dealing with.

These people are dying. I suppose they are waiting for the call to meet the God. With just one kind sense, atleast, they should not be in a way they are, joking and making fun infront of these patients. Some of them even laugh and texting. What kind of people is this?

Hospital – a place that needs silence and concerntration on part of the doctors and the visitors. Should I mention that here? No. When daddy is whispering “something”, a couple of Syahadah to Pak Ngah, the doctors asked him to go out. Do have feelings toward this dying man. He needs his family besides him, with Syahadah and Yasin whispered to his ears (the least that we can do at this moment).

I was so upset and couldn’t understand what are these doctors want in their very life. They are not sensitive at all. Perhaps they will if the same thing happened to their family. I saw the room were filled up with many set of medical instrument. I must say the Indian and the Malays were among of hundred of patient being treated in that room.

But most of the doctors are Chinese. We know how hard the Chinese boy, wearing a tagname of University Malaya, got into this job. And we know that they are the bestest among the best elected to persue medical study in University Malaya. They struggled so hard to place themselves, constantly scored their SPM or STPM.

They never went to Manchester Medical College because they have no money. A group of Malay doctors looming around making fun with their friends are so lucky to be there. But they didn’t “feel” the job like this young Chinese doctor feels it. “Langsung tidak ada budi bahasa.”

In hospital, we never measure our skin colour. We ignore our religious background. We set aside our political based ideology. We are here to help other person’s life. We want them to wake up and get well soon, so they would be able to walk and run like other people does. We never put the race remark and select which patient should be considered first according to their race background. That is why hospitals are special.

I must say that this is a wake up call for us, as Malay and Bumiputra to appreciate what we have in this blissful country. We must wake up, and perhaps to learn from our opposite race friends. When our political leaders outside there fighting for the survival of their race, isu azan lah, ketuanan melayu lah, isu hak istimewa lah, “ethnic cleansing” lah, fatwa lah, we are here to fix the damages caused by them.

Pak Ngah passed away at 6.25 pm. May Allah’s peace be with him.

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15 Responses

  1. ondastreet says:

    Takziah daripada Ondastreet. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat dan menempatkan Allahyarham di kalangan orang yang beriman.

    Semoga family Doc semua tabah dalam menjalani hari-hari yg mendatang.

  2. Pemuda IKS says:

    Salam perjuangan,

    Our heartiest condolences to your dear family. Sorry for your loss.

    For the joke around doctors, get a life! We don’t need your type around here. They should’ve shown some respect and not being a disgust to the Malay community.

    Have you checked out WJK comment on his latest posting? Kaw.

    One more thing that Pemuda IKS wants to dip hands in is apart from the Malay doctors not being thankful for all the “specialities”, there is one more syndrome: the not-want-to-serve-in-Malaysia-eventhough-the-Government-sponsored-my-education-fees-overseas syndrome. That’s one long ass name syndrome. These bollocks are the truly unthankful sons of bitches. To spice it up a bit, they turn their backs on the Government during the elections.

    Sorry to use harsh words on your page. Pemuda IKS is just pissed off.

    “Memperkasa Generasi Baru”

    Pergerakan Pemuda
    UMNO Cawangan Taman IKS
    Bahagian Batu WP

    http://pemudaiks.blogspot.com

  3. Piggy Singh says:

    Salam Doc,

    Al-fatihah to Pak Ngah.

    Remember the post on good samaritan never speaks loud, one of the surgeons that went to Bangladesh was a chinese. He’s the that I mentioned losing five figure of income on for one week absent from his clinic for charity work.

    Satu lagi, when I heard about BA landslide form web news portal, I told my wife straight away. And he urged me to call our chinese friend who lived near the vicinity. When I called, no answer and I got worried like hell. Then she rang me back, thank God she was vacationing in Australia.

    Well bangsa malaysia is not a political agenda, it’s a matter of the heart.

    Wassalam.

  4. Good article, but i think its manipal medical college not manchester medical college, a typo perhaps

  5. lingam says:

    Lucky you are not qualified to enter Medical School, if not you might be one of the “Malay doctors looming around making fun with their friends.”

    BTW the “Chinese Doctor” may be a medical student from UM (of course medical student like to interview patients … don’t you know?) because doctor won’t ware that kind of name tag, doctor always wear hospital name tag; to qualify as a doctor, one need to get Degree MBBS or MD. This is the REAL Doctor but nowadays there are lots of Con- Doctor.

    After those 2 years of Houseman ship, it is like chambering if you able to grad from your Law School then they can become Medical Officer U41.

    Rule#1 in Visiting ICU patient
    Only 2 family members are allowed at one time and at a limited time. Why?

    Main cause of death in ICU: Infections and multiple organ failure.
    The greatest challenge in treating patients in ICU is to prevent from infections.

    BUT I do AGREE with you on the bad attitude and behavior mentioned.

  6. SickOfDiscrimination says:

    My deepest condolence to you, your family, and your Pak Ngah’s family, Sid. I am very sure that your late Pak Ngah will be with Allah now and glad to be with HIM now.

    Finally you got to see for yourself how we chinese doctors struggle so hard but yet, still remain professional without regarding the patient is Malay or Indian or others. They are who they are just purely due to their real intention of becoming compassionate doctors.

    If you have read my subsequent reply for you on your topic on “Bangsa Malaysia is a Total Fake” then you will understand that not only UM chinese graduated doctors are like that, there are many more unfortunate chinese students outside there who studied in private uni and oversease uni who really never divide whether the patient is Malay or Indian or Chinese.

    Despite of our dissapointment that we never get the equal chance to enter local university for medicine, we still with our pure heart will help to cure the Rakyat. You can read my story of medical life there as a medical student for these 4 years and how i ended up in private university by using my own huge amount of loaned money just to study medicine and to serve the Rakyat never descriminating Malay,Indian,others nor Chinese.

    I am not boasting that chinese/Indian doctor has better performance than non-chinese/Indian infact some Malay doctors are really superb. I have come across 2-3 Malay specialists (excellent in knowledge and attitude) who really treat we student as medical students, most treat us like junk just because we are yellow or dark skined.

    I am really glad that at least you realised and share the truth to the rest of your readers. Everything happening in Malaysia is about politic. It is the Malaysian Politic that is killing her own Motherland.

    Hope you are ok by now and not so sad about your uncle’s death. I always believe Muslim has the best devotee who has the best understanding on issue of death and readily accept death.

  7. panzer says:

    innalillah…
    well,true said..
    we have to clean up these old ppl’s mess….
    ape lagi sid

  8. Dr.Sid says:

    thanks to everyone, IKS, ODS, singh, panzer, sickofdiscrimination, thank you.

  9. no.reply.daz says:

    a great article doctor. keep up. btw, sorry for your uncle. can’t help much except for my sorry toward him.

  10. abishit oxford says:

    tough boy, wake up. long time no post. still sad aa?

  11. [...] The Malay supremacy is an idiot idealism I must say. It just make things worse. We donot even understand the fact that we are far left behind. Whose supremacy that we are talking about? The Malays still remain poor, and jobless. The Malay still in their tight sleep, believe that they will wake up in the morning with no struggle and harm. They are feeling complacent. [...]

  12. Dr.Sid says:

    i have link up your comments to the bangsa malaysia a total fake article, sickofdiscrimination.

  13. SickOfDiscrimination says:

    Thanks for the linking sid. I presume that you linked it coz you find it meaningful which you would like to share with others to know the truth and i shall respect your decision and i kind of encourage it because by this, more people will realise what is going on in this country. I just hope my experience can make others awake and together we move Malaysia forward.

    You still sound gloomy to me, hope you are okay by now. Everybody is so worry about u and all of us are looking forward to see your next blog,even I myself too..*psst.. my exam still going on and tomorrow got a paper but still online twice a day just to see you are writing something for us*

    The fact is that an event of grief will have to go through 5 stages that are DABDA (Denial–> Anger–> Bargaining –> Depression –> Acceptance). Please dont get yourself stuck in between and land into the acceptance phase faster.Get your life going..

    Have a great day~

  14. Pemuda IKS says:

    Salam perjuangan,

    What thrives and inspires you to write oftenly?

    “Memperkasa Generasi Baru”

    Pergerakan Pemuda
    UMNO Cawangan Taman IKS
    Bahagian Batu WP

    http://pemudaiks.blogspot.com

  15. jason kenny says:

    put some bird feed/ wildlife feeds outside your garden.

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